Learning how to finger a girl perfectly definitely takes practice. So, the best thing you can do is keep a few things in mind when you are fingering a woman. Keep these things in mind, and you will get better each time, and eventually be fingering her perfectly.
- Use your senses: This is the most important thing to remember when trying to finger a girl perfectly, but when trying to fuck good in general. You have to pay attention to your partner. There will be physical cues that will clue you in to how they are feeling, and how you are doing. Notice when her skin gets warm and turns flush red. Notice when she starts to breathe more heavily. Notice when she moans a little. Also, when you are touching her pussy, you will notice that it starts to swell up or get wetter as she gets aroused. If you are always paying attention to these cues, you will be able to make the connection between what you’re doing, and what is working. This is the best way to learn how to fuck good.
- Slowly build up: Unless you’re with a partner that you’ve been with before many times, and you’re doing a quickie, it’s probably not a good idea to shove your hands down a woman’s pants, and blasting your finger into her vagina right away is never a good idea. It’s best to build up to touching her down there, and when you are down there, warm her up with soft pressure and a flat palm before putting any fingers in her. If you’re paying attention to her physical cues, you’ll know just the right time to take it to the next level.
- Know where the G spot is: A couple of inches up the inside of the vagina, towards her belly. Get your fingers up there, and once you’ve built up enough, don’t be afraid to use a good deal of pressure there.
- Know where the clitoris is: It’s right at the top of the vagina, where the lips meet. It’s kind of like a little bead of skin, and it has as many nerve endings in it as a whole dick does. Yeah. It’s sensitive, so be gentle at first, and don’t overdo it.
- Variety: Remember when I said don’t overdo it? That’s because you need some variety. Come up with a few different moves, and rotate a bit, all while paying attention to the physical cues. Build up that way for a bit, but eventually, when you notice something is really working, don’t stop!
- Care about pleasing her: This is hard to do without. If you aren’t eager to please her – either because you really care about her, or you just love to hear women moan, you’ll never learn how to fuck good, and you’ll never learn how to finger a girl perfectly.
There’s a few short tips, that if you follow – and get practice, will teach you how to finger your girlfriend perfectly. For much more detailed information, check out my post How to Finger a Girl.